sull'eritrofobia last post I talked about how those suffering from outbreaks of redness, is very often a person Sensitive and Empathic , these are due qualità che rendono speciale una persona.
Oggi voglio continuare su questa strada, ovvero, smettiamo per un attimo di vedere tutti i lati negativi dell'eritrofobia e dedichiamoci ai vantaggi , ai lati positivi. Non storcere il naso (:P), il fatto che molte delle esperienze che abbiamo vissuto ci abbiamo portato a vedere l'eritro come un limite, come qualcosa di cui vogliamo sbarazzarci, non vuole assolutamente dire che non ci dia anche in cambio qualcosa di positivo, qualcosa che in certi casi ci rende anche più interessanti di chi eritrofobico non è.
Questo ragionamento che mi gira in testa da un bel pò di tempo ormai, ha trovato la sua espressione Last night, after an unexpected chat with my girlfriend, we were having dinner together and she told me something very nice, told me to find me interesting because now blushed for her.
Just told me I became red: P went on to talk, I understood better what I was saying, she sensed my blush as something that few other people he knew (none?) Could give him, as a demonstration of sensitivity, to return to the previous post, but also of interest against him.
Think about it, the first event for us dear eritrofobici often lived with a thousand fears, a thousand paranoia about us perceive the person on which we want to impress, the fact that we can paint like a bell pepper to this and be seen as weak, insecure or strange often puts us in awe .
But if in fact it was not always like this? If eritrofobia instead of being a threshold to be an advantage approach with the opposite sex? If it were a feature that makes us earn points? Do not want to sound like an exaggeration, I'm not saying that if blushing girls (or boys if you're a girl) will throw themselves at the foot because it would be really too easy and unrealistic, but what I want to say is that the sensitivity and openly demonstrate your interest , turning red, why not, it is often perceived as something nice from the person who stands before you.
And you? I want to tell us about your experience? The erythrocyte has always been a limit or there were some nice moments also in a relationship with her?
Let me know, because I am sure that my girlfriend is not the only one to think so:)
Good evening, James
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